August 1, 2004

We have chosen to celebrate not only our union today, but also the wedding traditions of our families' collective heritage. We have selected traditions from English, German, Polish, and French weddings.

English Tradition - Something old to symbolize continuity with the bride's family and the past, something new to symbolize optimism and hope for the future, something borrowed represents that one can depend upon friends and family, something blue symbolizes purity, love and fidelty.

German Tradition - Carole is carrying sachets of salt and bread, as an omen for good harvest. Eric is carrying grain for good luck and wealth.

Polish Tradition - The "money dance" is always popular at a traditional reception in Poland. Guests pin money to the bride's wedding dress to buy a dance from her. In our updated version of this fun tradition, the maid of honor will collect money from those who wish to dance with either the bride or the groom.

French Tradition - Pieces of a bride's ensemble have been considered very lucky for other unmarried women for centuries. French brides would often have small bits of veil or dress torn off by unruly guests, who might also attempt to tear off her garter. If not, the best man would steal the garter off the bride, or the groom would take it off her and sell small pieces of it to wedding guests. In 14th Century France, the tossing of the bouquet and garter became a safer and more enjoyable tradition.